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Friday, July 18, 2008 | Posted by TJ Draper

I just want to clear up some things about the Social Networking world known as Facebook.

Some people seem to be under the impression that Facebook is evil, or that you just stumble upon so many things that aren’t good. Or that by using Facebook, you are somehow forced to participate in some evil something or other and that you see all kinds of weird stuff.

Let me clear up these mis-conceptions. I really like Facebook. I think it is the best social network right now. And aside from the advertisements on the left side, which admittedly some are not that good, you don’t see anything you don’t choose to see on Facebook.

You see, Facebook is a social network. You see your friend’s updates, see and share photos with your friends, write on their “walls,” send and receive messages, etc. So, the content of Facebook is determined by those you are friends with on Facebook. No one can be friends with you unless you confirm them as friends. So, say I see my buddy on Facebook (whether I searched for him by name or email or whatever), so I tell Facebook to add him as a friend. Facebook asks him to confirm that we are friends. He can confirm or reject. So you have to have mutual consent to be friends with someone on Facebook. I have no doubt that there are bad people with bad profiles and bad photos on Facebook. However, I cannot confirm or deny this since I am not friends with anyone I don’t want to be. Hence the content and updates I see on Facebook is good.

Facebook is open to everyone, so yeah, there are going to be people on Facebook you don’t want to be friends with.

I really love Facebook and I’ll tell you why. For me, it’s all about the status updates (a status update is when you simply type a couple lines about what you are up to). I love being able to see what my friends are up to, especially the ones that are 450 miles away. People that I used to feel disconnected from. And the status updates are cool because I have Facebook on my iPhone and I can quickly type a couple words about what I’m up to and keep right on going. There are lots of folks from my former church on Facebook that I’m able to stay connected with through Facebook.

So, to summarize… Facebook is not evil, bad, wicked, or any such thing. Clear?

Cool!

Over and Out.

Category: General Ruminations | (4) Comments | Permalink


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Comment by Joe

Hey you should check out Twitter then.


Comment made on Friday, July 18, 2008  at  02:50 PM


Comment by TJ Draper

Yeah, I have an account on Twitter, but I don’t use it. I just can’t get in to Twitter like I do Facebook.

While I do really like the Status updates, I also enjoy the other aspects of Facebook. Facebook has a better design and layout too IMO.


Comment made on Friday, July 18, 2008  at  02:53 PM


Comment by James Lansberry

Two things:
First: I agree on facebook layout (and you can get your friends’ updates in an RSS feed) but I use twitter and the twitter app in facebook (which automatically imports my twitter status to facebook).  Twitter updates can also be put on my website.

Second: somebody told you facebook was evil?


Comment made on Monday, July 21, 2008  at  01:57 PM


Comment by TJ Draper

Quote from James Lansberry:
Second: somebody told you facebook was evil?

Well, it’s more of a vibe, though it seems I did have one person tell me once that Facebook was wicked or some such thing. But generally you get a vibe, either about Facebook, or about social networks in general.

A lot of times people just think that it’s wrong because you should interact with people only on the personal level (I’ve even had people tell me email was too impersonal, or can be taken too lightly as a form of communication. To which I usual respond that I don’t take any form of communication lightly).


Comment made on Monday, July 21, 2008  at  02:49 PM


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